That expression is weird. And doesn't sound good. You are shaped by your history and experiences. People, media and society shapes us. We learn to be afraid, to conform and not to stand out. I think what people really want is to break out of that prison. It's not about "finding" yourself. It's about CREATING yourself. Who do you want to be? What do you want to do?
BE IT and DO IT.
Don't be confined by the prison the system put you in. It's hard to break free from years of programming. But it is possible and
STARTS with YOU.
"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."