ROSES

"Some people complain that roses have thorns. I am grateful that thorns have roses."

WHY?
Why in general do people pay more attention to little negative parts of something, than rather put the focus on the big positve parts?
WHY?
"Don't be ignorant. Be a realist" would someone say.
YES?
Ok, let's not be ignorant and be realist and see the positive as well. Let's put at least or even more attention on the positve.
I don't understand why people leave out the good and blow up the negative.

WHY?
Is it useful?
Absolutly not!
So WHY?
It really doesn't matter WHY.

What matters is NOW!
NOW let's focus more on the positive and less on the negative!
For sure, we have to see the negative, but even so we have to see the positive.

"What we put on our attention, grows!"
"Ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior" - It's psychology! It works (also with animals).
What do we do?
Pay attention to the negative behavior and ignore the good behavior.

WRONG!

So instead of criticizing, we should be complimenting.
Let's pay attention to the good parts of a human being.
Let's compliment, so there will be even more of the good and less of the bad.

Of course roses have thorns - But there is more rose than thorns!