What is beauty and who defines it?
A famous woman on a cover magazine with a lot of make up, professional lighting / photographer and A LOT of photoshop - this is beauty?
Maybe I need glasses or something is wrong with me. I don't like any of the famous female models.
They are all plastic to me - mannequins.
For me beauty is a mix of personality, smile, a big heart, humor and the way of thinking. And also how a woman treats me. That is beauty!
Sometimes it happened to me, that you see a pretty woman (walking down the street). Pretty by worldly standards.
And then she opens her mouth and she loses all the beauty she had before.
On the covers there should be women with attractive personalities and not mannequins with tons of makeup.
And I am sure that those famous models can be beautiful, too! Stop putting tons of make up on, put away the arrogance, the empty stare, eat some more food and show your real you!
Yes, show your fears and weakness - that is attractive!
If you have a mission, sometimes you have feelings of doubt. You do and do and you don’t move forward.
You plant the seed, you water it every day with a lot of love. But nothing happens.
Even if you are confident in your abilities, it can happen that you have doubts.
Negativity creeps in and grows.
That happened to me in the last days. Today morning I made my coffee and went to check my emails.
Half awake, I read an email:
“You are one of finalists of the FFIEL 2019 photo competition in Leon!”
Wow, all doubts gone! The sky is clear again!
Doubt is dangerous. Doubt doesn’t help. Doubt steals your happiness.
“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.”
When doubts will come back in future, I am going to be busy working on my goals. So doubt will have no room in my head.
“Doubt can only be removed by action.”
The “promise” is all over the internet. Everywhere people selling their magical product and telling you that you, like them, can become rich.
Those commercials are annoying and sad.
Sad, that people believe it. Yes, it is true, those products make rich, just not you.
So how can you become rich?
There are only two ways:
- be a SHARK and steal money from people legally and illegally.
You don’t want to be that person.
- provide VALUE
All the successful people have one thing in common.
And it doesn’t matter if it is a product, a service, knowledge or a talent (entertainment).
They all provide VALUE. Something which makes your life better.
And many started by providing VALUE for free.
So, the correct mindset would be:
“How can I improve the life of other people?”
Find a way to improve the life of others. Improve many lives.
AND you will be rich. Not only with money, but also rich in meaning, to have made people’s life better.
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